Long Running Jokes – Is It Sexual Harassment? An Employment Lawyer’s Answer

Jonathan Mamaril • May 3, 2020

As an employment lawyer and part of a law firm that represents employers in employment law I am regularly challenged by numerous people, be it – clients, managers, supervisors, consultants, accountants, other lawyers with different specialties, and even friends in regards to the complex issues around sexual harassment and workplace bullying.

It will usually go along the lines of “we always joke about each other’s personal [insert s-xuality, partners, race, gender, appearance] life and tease each other because we have such a great workplace culture.”

Or something to this effect:

“Everyone knows that they are all jokes and good humour”

As you read this, you may believe that this is either appropriate or inappropriate depending on the context. It is well established in case law that the normal and everyday culture of the workplace will play a role with the Commission and Courts as to whether a complaint should be considered in the context of sexual harassment or workplace bullying.

Whenever anyone tells us about the workplace in this context, our response is generally the same, that is, of course it’s not really a problem until one person makes a complaint.

Because someone eventually and inevitably will. That person is usually the newest employee, or even someone who is dealing with personal issues – comments that were previously considered a joke are no longer “funny”.

Sexual Harassment

To put these all in context, sexual harassment in Queensland is any unwelcome conduct of a sexual nature that is done either to offend, humiliate or intimidate another person, or where it is reasonable to expect the person might feel that way.

Considering this definition, it does not consider whether these acts or conduct is repeated or continuous to be against the law. That is, in circumstances where it has been the norm to engage in friendly “banter” when it was considered “a long running joke” or “comradery” – however arguably such conduct could be considered sexual harassment or even workplace bullying.

In a recent case involving Emmanuel Montes v The Star Casino [2020] FWC 874 (Star Casino Case), it looked at an issue where an employee who believed that they were engaging in long running jokes or comradery was unfairly dismissed.

In this particular case, Mr. Montes had been employed by the Star Casino for around nine (9) months. In that time, Mr. Montes received a warning and two complaints about his behaviour.

The complainants were unrelated and the complaints were of 3 differing circumstances.

In one of the instances, Mr Montes was engaging in “friendly banter” with an employee. In his defence, the other employee had also engaged in friendly banter with Mr Montes. Mr. Montes took it too far when he grabbed the tray that he had in his hands and smacked the other employee on the bottom. When a complaint was made by the other employee, the other employee said that she felt his actions were “extremely rude and disrespectful”. Mr Montes replied where he said, “come on, I’m only joking”.

In his view, the smacking of her bottom was just part of the spirit of comradery between the two after they’ve been engaged in friendly banter over a period of time.

When confronted with this allegation, Mr Montes showed no remorse and felt that the complaint was frivolous and had no merit.

Amongst other issues, Mr Montes also had a previous warning in regards to his behaviour, had breached a number of policies and also had engaged in further inappropriate commentary with another employee about her being “attractive”.

Of course, it did not help that Mr Montes did not show any remorse whatsoever.

In particular, the Commission found that his lack of understanding was so deeply ingrained. He never really believed he had done anything wrong. His application failed.

Lessons for Employers

Every single time we get asked by clients about sexual harassment and whether comments by staff are “ok” or do they “go too far” or they reiterate that it is part of the “workplace culture” I always point towards cases like the Star Casino Case

That is, in circumstances and in environments like this, complaints are inevitable. If the circumstances that are created give employees engaging in the banter such a deep and ingrained lack of understanding of what they’ve done wrong, then you’ve got a further problem and expect to receive unfair dismissal applications, general protection applications or a discrimination application.

The Sex Discrimination Commissioner has just handed down a report which suggest amongst other changes to law:

  • Ensuring it is clear that sexual harassment is “adverse action”
  • Sexual harassment is specifically legislated as serious misconduct
  • A positive duty on employers to eliminate sexual harassment
  • Aiding and abetting in sexual harassment will be grounds for individual liability

Expect changes to the Fair Work Act 2009 (Cth) around sexual harassment. Some helpful tips for employers to avoid, prevent or reduce the risks of sexual harassment claims:

  • Start with having a sexual harassment policy in place;
  • To put some time and energy aside to implement some sexual harassment training;
  • Create opportunities in the organisation to outline that banter and “jokes” should be kept within the bounds of what is acceptable in the workplace;
  • Provide training and education to managers and supervisors of people to set the right standards that align with any policy but also the company values and code of conduct; and
  • If a complaint is made about sexual harassment, take it seriously and go through the normal process required, that is, to give the person being complained of an opportunity to respond to the allegations and if required, to undertake a workplace investigation.

About Jonathan Mamaril , Director at NB Lawyers – Lawyers for Employers

jJonathan Mamaril leads a team of handpicked experts in the areas of employment law and commercial law who focus on educating clients to avoid headaches, provide advice on issues before they fester and when action needs to be taken and there is a problem mitigate risk and liability.

For all Employers we offer an obligation free consultation – please call 07 3876 5111 or email Jonathan Mamaril at [email protected]

Find the job you love I Find the right talent
Get in touch with people2people

Australia   I   United Kingdom

In business since 2002 in Australia, NZ, and the United Kingdom, people2people is an award-winning recruitment agency with people at our heart. With over 12 offices, we specialise in accounting and finance, business support, education, executive, government, HR, legal, marketing and digital, property, sales, supply chain, and technology sectors. As the proud recipients of the 2024 Outstanding Large Agency and Excellence in Candidate Care Awards, we are dedicated to helping businesses achieve success through a people-first approach.



Share insights

Recent articles

By Leanne Lazarus August 28, 2025
Leanne Lazarus is joined by Adeline Rooney and Samantha McCall to explore how HR teams across Australia and New Zealand are embracing personalisation, AI, and employee-centred strategies. From microlearning to remote workforce tools, they unpack what’s redefining success in 2025.
By Nicole Consterdine August 26, 2025
Amid budget cuts and tech transitions, Nicole Consterdine leads a conversation with Chelsea Dale and Peter Crestani about the changing face of government hiring. They explore skill demands, AI’s role, and what the future looks like for public sector talent across Australia and New Zealand.
By Sharna Bryant August 21, 2025
Sharna Bryant is joined by Danny Merrigan and Sam Olorenshaw to discuss how the sales sector is growing smarter in 2025. From AI and personal branding to decentralised learning and soft skill mastery, this update reveals what’s defining standout employers and high-performing teams.
By Peta Seaman August 19, 2025
In this 2025 property market update, Peta Seaman is joined by Deanne Goodwin and Ella Mills to explore rising optimism across Australia and New Zealand. From AI adoption to renter-focused trends, they reveal what’s shaping the sector’s future.
By Liz Punshon August 13, 2025
With job ads down and applications rising, Australia’s employment market is in flux. In this update, Liz Punshon is joined by Brooke Lord and Guy Davy to explore the shifts in hiring strategy, workforce expectations, and why 2025 demands a more nuanced approach to talent attraction.

Latest Media Features


Get in touch

Find out more by contacting one of our specialisat recruitment consultants across Australia, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom.

Contact us